HAPPINESS AND PAIN

Every happiness is blended with pain and every pain is mixed with happiness. There is no such place in life where only happiness abides. And similarly there is no such place where you meet with sufferings and only suffering..... Our heaven and hell are just our imagination. Where ever life is, there is happiness and suffering together. They go together. You have happy moments or relaxation in hell and painful spells of boredom in heaven.Every thing in existence happens on its own time, a time for which one has to wait with treamandous patience. Every thing has its season: nothing happens out of season. Time and occasion have great importance in life. A person in youth, had one kind of understainding, in middle age he doesnot have the same, and in the period of deccay, a different kind of understanding becomes agreable to him. Youth,beauty,life, wealth, health and friends are all unstable,No one can be happy unless he /she feels his/her life is in some way important. so be happy and contented always.......

THE LOVABLE LIBERATED MAN

1. He has genuine self-esteem and is not threatened by job loss, financial difficulties, family conflicts, or even the loss of love.
2.He is equally pathered to love his mate and children as much as his work.
3. He is a life long student of the art of love. He is curious about learning every way to help his mate enjoy their love life more. He is turned on by emotions, words, experiences, as well as his mates appearences.
4.He is open and honest about his feelings. He loves to express his warmth and affection for her and does it without reason and as an act of his fullness.
5. He wants his mate to be mature and happy. He is not threatened by her achievements.
6.He wants to regularly enjoy exciting leisure activities with his mate and children.
7.He can read and adjust to his mates emotional wave lengths.
8. He is not a mamas boy in that he is controlled by his mother. He has equal love for his mother, his mate and his children. He is his own man and will never let his mother seperate him from his mate.
9. He delights in his partners freedom, person hood, happines and individuality.
10.He accepts and cultivates her leisure activity as important to her personhood and thus their happiness.
11. He makes her financially secure so that she will never be threatned by the worry of financial destitution were she to lose him.

THE LOVABLE LIBERATED WOMEN

1. She and her man come first in her life. Every one knows she cares.
2.She is open honest and frank in converstion. She gets it out, forgives and forgets. She never denies sex in revenge.
3. She initiates and let him lead. She is not fearful, but trusting.
4. She enjoys and encourages the beautiful pleasure of sex. She knows that refusal of sex is a total rejection of a man, that a lack of feminity is an attack on his manhood. She knows that men really rspond to affection.
5. She realizes trhat men have a low tolerance for stress and frustration. She doesnot make him wait for an unreasonable length of time
6. She accepts his dedication to his work. She helps him achieve balance by making his leasure time as exciting and meaning ful as his work.
7. She loves herself, so out of the overflow of her self -celebration, she abundantly loves him
8. She has developed such genuine self esteem through her work, social life or other activity that she meets her own emotional needs, and thus isnot burdening him to meet her needs.

ALL ABOUT LOVE

Love is considered an abstract term very difficult to explain but can only be experienced and used.Love should begin at home.one who loves the visible soon begins to feel the presence of the invisible that is hidden just behind. you love a rock and the rock turns into G0d. you love a flower, and you will come in contact with the elan vital that is throbbing inside the flowers heart. you love a person and soon the body disappears and the spirit becomes visible. Love is the alchemy which can turn the visible into the invisible, the subtle. Love is the door to the unknown, the unknowable. Love is always the highest state, there are no degrees of love-less and more. Love is never less than the whole. A little love has no meaning. Love is neither small nor big. Love is simpley love. There is no such things as the highest state of love. Love is always the climax a and there are no short climaxes and long ones. Love is the first and last. The first and the last rings of loves ladder are the same. so be loving, feel love for living human beings who surround us from every where. Love plants and flowers that are visible every where.Love the hills and mountains and stars who are all members of the visible world.